“Let’s talk about sex baby...”

Sex is one of these kinds of topics that everybody would like to talk and at the same time is ashamed. But I am not ashamed moreover I think that a lot of young (and not only) people will enjoy reading this short essay.
Why do we make love? One of the most known Polish sexuologist pointed six reasons why we decide to start making love:

1. Because of the need of nature. Some people strongly believe that making love is as necessary as the need to drink and eat everyday…Why? Maybe because of the society that put pressure on them. They feel more ashamed to be virgin that to make love just with “somebody” because this is the rule.
   
2. Because they are looking for pleasure. Some of people think that this pleasure will fulfill the loneliness in their life, which will bring the never ending happiness. Is it possible?
   
3. Because they want to check how it is to do the “thing that everybody is doing”. I can promise that this curiosity can bring more damages than happy moments and elation.
   
4. Because young people thanks to making love want to be independent and mature. But do not forget that maturity doesn’t start in the bed but in the real life, in every step by step with your girl/boy, in building the trust and love in small things, details. To be adult you should be responsible for your life, since the beginning till the end and also what can be even more important, to be responsible for the person who decided to share the body and bed with you.
   
5. Because of the promise that “we love each other”. So common sentence. Sometimes it’s told without feelings, sometimes so deep and true. How to recognize if it’s true? If you hesitate about this…so the answer is easy…
   

So…how to do this? In which moment of your life? If you are not sure…just wait…The best moment is when you are really sure and confident. Not only sure of the feelings or the person...but also about yourself. The most beautiful moments in our lives are these that we have to wait for. Finally we can enjoy and appreciate them more. The best feelings- these that we experience everyday. The first time can be the most amazing if you combine love, passion and friendship together. One of the ancient philosophers told: “Real friends its one soul in two bodies, perfect couple is two souls in one body”. What do you think about the combination- two people, one couple, one soul and one body? This can be just real perfection and happiness!